There’s friendships…..and then there’s friendships
I have a strange relationship with a neighbor in the condo complex where I live. I’ve known her and her really sweet husband for most of three years now. They are both originally from Canada and he’s some kind of textile chemist and she works part time at a daycare center where they have their little boy. She’s the same age as me and they both love my cooking, which qualifies them as friends. They both know I’m lesbian and even kid me about it in a nice way.
Now here’s the situation. During the last six months, me, her and sometimes my ex, would all go to flea markets and yard sales almost every weekend. Sometimes she would even come over in the evenings with a bottle of wine or something she’d baked for us to try. My ex thought she was an airhead, but I thought she was really nice. We had been friends long before my ex ever came along and we would laugh almost the entire time we were ever together. So, about a month ago, just before my ex imploded and moved out, she started doing a lot of hugging and being affectionate when we got together. She had really gotten to be a touchy feely kind of friend, which is my general nature anyway, so I didn‘t really have issue with it and yes, on a few occasions, we did kiss, but nothing more than that. Well, she also started to ask a lot of sexual questions about lesbian relationships. Like I said, we’ve known each other for about three years and I know she’s not hitting on me and that she’s only curious, as most straight people are…..most cases anyway.
I’m not going to go into a lot of detail, as I don’t really think it’s necessary. But, the one topic she stated talking more and more about was oral sex. She made it clear that she could never, ever do that with another woman, but!!!, she most likely wouldn’t have a problem having it done just to her. It seems that cunnilingus is not her husbands cup of tea. Now, I know I’m just a simple minded southern girl, but I’m not a dork! It’s obvious she want’s me to make the first move and have a non reciprocated affair with her. Now, I do dearly enjoy a good peach, but I also enjoy sharing and except for high school, I’ve never been in a position like this before. I think the world of her and her man and she is very pretty and yes, sexy, but this might be a little too awkward, even for me, maybe, I think, whatever. I’ve only seen her once in the last two weeks and that’s when I told her about my ex moving out and she hugged me, which caused me to cry some more, but nothing else happened. You know, I might be assuming a whole shit load of whatever’s, and could be totally wrong about her. Anyway, I do love her homemade doughnuts.